Timeline

          Just now, I had a quarrel with my dad. He wanted me to do as he said and I refused. This happens many a time. he wants me to follow him and i am adamant on my ways.
          The question is not whose fault it is coz, if u ask me i would rather say it is of nobody. whatever he is saying is for my own good, maybe not to my opinion but definitely not out of any other emotion. But the question is Why do we keep judging people on our own timeline?! why do we not think from a different perspective and lash out at each other with excruciating criticism, which is full of nothing else but prejudice!
           I admit that may be sometimes even I do the same thing, but I m realizing it, that this is not the way. We should realize that each one of us has a separate time-line, filled with altogether different scenarios and may seem easy to handle things but it may not be so. Let us put prejudice and criticism and unreal self-beliefs behind us and think  other person is actually feeling coz after-all, everybody is at war, fighting their own battles to their maximum of their capabilities!

The Healer

              If there is anyone in this world who can heal every pain in this world, then it is no other than god himself. He is a great healer. I remember reading on the entrance of saifee hospital which reads ''when I am sick, It is He(God), who looks after me'' and I completely  agree with him. He is indeed a great healer. Whenever we suffer from pain in life, he ensures he gives us pain-killers. But sometimes, These pain-killers are so addictive that, even when pain has vanished, we start craving for them. They turn from necessity to addiction.
             It somewhat happened to me in the last 2-3 yrs. From my personal experience, I want to tell my readers that, somethings are meant to happen in life, even though we don't like it. Some people are meant to leave us, even though we want to hold them with us throughout our lives. So, let them go, where they are destined to go, and you continue your journey to your own destiny. As a great person has said, ''forget what hurt you, But never forget it taught you''. 

open the windows

              I always feel our mind is a small room of our own, just for ourselves. we live there to the core of our individuality. Not only that, but we perceive things as they appear through the windows of this room. And sometime we grade thing, sometimes even other people, on the basis of how they appear from one particular window, ignoring their perspectives from other angles. So, let's open the windows to all perspectives, to all mentalities, to all thought and to all feelings. Let's remember that, the more the windows are open more light will illuminate the room. the light of knowledge, the light of truth which is unbiased. And I guess, that is what all of us are looking forward too, in all our lives. We have heard many stories of various great men who, in their younger times never thought of becoming,  what they became in the future.  
          Like, M.S.Dhoni, the captain of Indian cricket team, was a goalkeeper for Indian national football team. But, Someone opened the window for cricket in his life. And today, he is the most successful captain in the history of Indian cricket. That's what happens, when you are open to all thought and all possibilities. So, lets open our minds unbiased for everything and then decide our choice, which is more likely to be correct.